Just wanted to say that I do feel for you but please don;t feel like having a child means the end of everything that you wanted to do..
I was a size 12 when I got pregnant with my 1st child and though it was hard to see myself getting bigger I had got down to a size 8 a year after the birth.
It also does not stop you going out! I ended up enjoying going out more because it was a release from being 'mum' and you then value the time you get to yourself..
Please don't feel that you will be missing out, you can have the bext of both worlds and if your partner is supportive and helps out then I'm sure you will find that you can be content.
Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy. xx