it maybe hard for him to get a job if he has a record. but at the same time i seen people with records get a job, so its not impossible.
i m glad you stuck to your guns telling him no.
does he expect you to support him forever b/c he cant find a job? this isn't the guy for you and he will give you stress and heartache the whole time your with him. he's going to have to grow up and be a man. but i know guys like that "hustle type, thug guys" he's going to suck everything out of you (always have his hand out).
that was your "red flag" in the beginning of the relationship to leave him alone (never there/hustling). so the after math of this relationship isn't surprising to me.
i know you have this emotional attachment with him b/c your carrying his baby. but what your enduring and will endure with this guy isn't worth it.
i was with a thug type guy and i supported him while he didn't have anything. Five years later, he decided he wanted to date, but don't want to loose me. in the end he told me to sleep in my son's room while he bring women in the house...all the furniture was paid by me. i left him, he beg for me back, i stayed away. he met someone else and they left him after a year, and the women before me left him & he refuses to check himself. he really thinks he's a good dude, but 3 women left him. anyway he sucked at least $30k out of me (splitting my income taxes with him, student loans,working & giving him money). so please don't allow him to do this to you.
