its alot of stress just thinking about it im not going to get into my life but i be done with school june 9th my boyfriend has a stable job && im in some college course whle in high-school to be a cna well atleast get myy license 4 it && we want a kidd our relationship is veryy strong we been throu so much its like i knt wait any more ii need HELP .
Go to college and get the job you want first. You and your boyfriend need to have your own house to make sure you can live together (some relationships change once this happens), both have good stable jobs and be able to have control of your finances and be able to pay for things yourselves without relying on either set of parents too much for help.
You're 17 there's plenty of time for you to have a family. Be a teen first before settling down and potentialy losing your friends because you have a baby. You'll be getting up all hours of the night and have to stay awake until baby is settled etc etc.
Your relationship might be strong, but having a baby will change it completely. There won't be any time for you and your boyfriend without arranging for a babysitter, everything will revolve around the baby, when you go out for a day it will take 3 times longer, you'll have to make sure you got everything you need for the day for the baby and yourselves.
Honestly I think you would be better off waiting til you're both a little older.
thank you alot im thinking that to i dont wanna be selfish with this it is alot of thinking to do so much stress && im not goin to college thou so i really dont kno wat i am going to do yet. but next year i will be a cna i love my boyfriend alot i dont want our kid to be planned i want it to be a blessing me and my boyfriend or engaged
im in the same boat i want a baby so bad but i dont want to bring it up without having a decent job as i want to be able to give it the best life i can, im in college still atm doing hairdressing and is my last year. im excited now cos i no that i will be able to have a baby soon as start a family with my boyfriend, but seriously i would get an education / job to be the best you can for your baby x
Im 18 have been trying for a baby for 1 year my period is always late amd im worrying im forever getting my hopes up and always getting let down i really need help my heart breaks every month thinking im pregnant my body is playing tricks on me i cant take anymore please help me find a solution Thanks