Someone said that no one understands the pain, that certainly is true, especially with my family. I'm heard fibro reffered to as the silent disease because you usually don't look sick. I get home help, which is a job I used to do. I feel that my family doesn't care what I go through, but the panel that decides how many hours of help I need decided my pain was so bad, I qualified more than double of what the people I worked for got. A panel of strangers could see clearer than my own family. It keeps getting worse, There is not a clean dish in the house, and the other rooms don't look any better. No one here cares at all, which hurts. I still do everything I can for them, but the are no where around when I need help. I hate asking for help and wait until I can't move before I will ask. When I manage to swallow my pride and ask, my daughter rolls her eyes and treats my like I am lazy. I've never been one to sit around, and it drives me crazy and makes me feel worthless. Anyway, I guess I should get to the subject here. I have to take a fairly strong medication for the pain. (Norco) It's a narcotic which I don't like, I'm alway afraid I'll become addicted. I take them on an as needed basis, and at times I don't need them for a couple of weeks. The firs time I did that I was neverous all the time, waiting for withdrawl symptom to begin. They never did, but I do believe that if I had to take them as prescribed, which is per day, I would become addicted. One of my doctors has mentioned taking something stronger like oxycontin. Every time he mentions this, I remind hom again that I have children, I can't take the chance of not being able to function. As it is now, I take just enough meds to function. When my 11 year old wants to do something with me, I want to just take the edge off of the pain. I have a 2 year old I consider mine most of the time, (long, sad story) I can't afford to be over medicated. The doctor alway argues that the stronder meds will take care of all the pain,...but at what cost? My children would suffer because I would be laying around too drugged to do anything. Also, I can't stand the feeling of being drugged, I go into a panic attack. My parents never had to worry about me drinking or doing drugs. My ex fool put something in my coffee once just to see house I would act stoned, I was furious! That's one of the big reasons I'm able to say "ex" now. If I took my meds as directed my pain would probably level off and I'd feel pretty much all the time. But, I also believe I would be addicted to narcotics, especially if I took the stronger ones he keeps pushing for.
Sorry this is so long, I ramble way too much. Someone mentioned the tender points,having your doctor check them is pretty accurate. There are also other conditions that usually accompany fibro. Chronic fatigue syndrome, IBS, degenerative disk disease, and one other I can't think of....I remember now, brain fog.

There are many days I am in a wheel chair, and some days I get around ok. After several years I was finally aproved for disability. Hang in there, and keep trying to find a doctor you like.
Lori