Drinking the right amount of water isn't really an exact science. They used to push 8 glasses of water a day, regardless, but this was never supported by scientific evidence. Drinking this amount won't hurt you, however, but you don't have to be so regimented about it. The water in your food does count (usually covers about 20% of your liquid needs), as do beverages besides water, even if they have some diuretic qualities (it usually isn't enough to negate the water content--although too much alcohol can make you dehydrated).
Your body also has this handy-dandy little indicator built in to tell you when to drink--thirst. If you are thirsty, you aren't drinking enough water. If you find that you are rarely thirsty, you probably are drinking enough for you. If you are always thirsty, you aren't drinking nearly enough or there is some underlying health issue (like diabetes).