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Well I have been with my fiancee for two years now... I can't complain about him... He has been so good to me.... But he asked me the other day what did I think about him watching rated x videos and i didnt know what to say because I have always thought that is disrespectful but then again I dont want him to do it behind my back...Any suggestions? Rolling Eyes
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replied August 19th, 2009
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Do it if you both want to....There is nothing wrong with two people in love watching these....However, I wouldn't want my husband watching this as an amusement as I think it can lead to possible deeper problems...But this is only my opinion....

Take care,
Caroline
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replied August 19th, 2009
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I think you ought to tell him that you've always thought they were disrespectful but that you don't want to dismiss something that he's into. Never underestimate the value of speaking your mind to your partner.

The cost to you of trying watching a porno with your finance is negligible, certainly worth the possible rewards. If you do definitely don't hold back your opinions. If you had fun let him know, if you aren't comfortable with him tell him
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replied November 7th, 2009
did you know that studies,(take this with a grain of salt)say that when guys watch porn it releases endorphins,kinda like when someone smells popcorn or rides a rollercoaster? seriously though,I personally think that if he respects you,If you tell him that you feel uncomfortable with his porn watching, then he will stop.though,you can open up a wonderful new chapter in ur relationship(and have some input)if you suggest that you watch them together!!, For one thing you guys can have intimate times,for two you can see what floats his boat,and you can show him what floats your boat,could be a win-win situation. At the least you wont have to worry about him doing it behind your back....g luck
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