I would have to say that I admire your openess towards your wife having sex and I also find her stance of doing it with other men pretty neat as well. I know that the opposite is kind of true as well. As a Massage Therapist I get many men who are sent out for a massage by their wifes so that they can get off by some elses hand.
I don't think you're weird, especially is she is enjoying it.
...i send my guy to a masseuse to get a massage.. personally, i think its unprofessional to bring a sexual act into a simple relaxing massage... if i ever found out my bf was touched inappropriately I'd be furious...whats the difference between paying someone on the street and getting a "professional" to do it?...nothing in my opinion...maybe that was a bit harsh however, i just dont feel like its appropriate to be whacking a guy off when his wife/significant other/gf is paying your bills by sending him there and would probably not be ok with it..i for certain am not
I agree with you regarding this issue.
I also agree with most of your thoughts that you have made regarding "watching my wife have sex with someone else" in other replies. Most of your ideas match with my thoughts (HOWEVER, I am NOT saying I am right and you or everybody else out there should be like me). I am 22/m, virgin(!), and honestly speaking, I cannot even imagine my future wife having sex with somebody else, forget about actually having sex (narrow-minded? may be according to many people). My love life is dedicated to the woman to whom I will get married. I will never have sex with any woman except her and I expect her to do the same ("philosophical", ya I know). She is my love and she alone is enough for me. I will not require a second woman to satisfy my sexual desires and I expect the same from her. She is physically and emotionally enough for me and I expect her to treat me the same way. She will be the first and last woman in my life and I want to be the first and last man his life. I am ready to fulfill her wishes as much as I can and I want her to be always with me since I will also be always there with her. I will share my happy moments with her and try to ease her life during her difficult times. Ya I know my thoughts are like of the old age but that is what I believe and I have prepared myself for that.
A note for everyone: For those of you who are thinking to attack me on this issue, PLEASE don't do that. Whatever I have said here reflects my personal opinion and I do NOT intend to say I am right or you people should be like me. As a matter of fact, I am NOT forcing anything on anyone and you have the complete freedom to lead your life the way you want to. God bless everyone!