Come on...nobody?

heck no...my man better not touch another woman or we're done..but as you said in your post he has admitted to fantasizing about me with another man while he watches....but thats not for me either

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I did not mean actually doing it...just fantasizing about it. Does it get you going?
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ok well..i would NEVER tell him this bc it would get his hope up about his fantasy but I DO fantasize about him and me with another guy..i'm not sure if its that Im really into it or just that its because I KNOW he's REALLY into it and it would turn me on to see him that turned on..because I never even fantasized about that sort of thing before he brought it up...and since he's brought it up i find myself thinking about it, and then I feel kind of guilty about it bc while its an interesting fantasy..its absolutely 100% NOT something I would ever consider going through with..bringing another person in your bedroom can REALLY mess things up and our relationship would not benefit from that..plus he's my first and only and i'd like to keep it that way as for fantasizing about a woman with us? NO WAY haha...like i said earlier, i dont want to even think about him touching another woman...and he's not interested in that anyway he's interested in seeing me with another guy..so whatever, its cool..i think i woulda been alittle more upset if he wanted another woman..i'd feel...inadequate i guess

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Fantasy is just that FANTASY.
It gets me going fantasizing about seeing my wife penetrated by some hunk while she is giving me oral and she admitted getting wet about seeing me ram some hottie from behind while she masturbates. However I would not go for it in real life(not now anyways:), and she would not want me to do another woman in real life. She says she would twist her neck off ha,ha. We've been together for 20 years so things like fantasies help to keep good sexlife going...

true..and you know i'm wondering if my bf would even actually go through with this in real life..he says he would want to but then in the back of my mind i'm wondering..even IF he were to persuade me into giving into this I feel like after the deed has been done and hes gotten his fantasy he would want nothing more to do with me...i feel like things would change...and i've told him like you said a fantasy is just a fantasy...making it a reality is a)difficult and b)can really change things

You are definitely not alone... I actually can NOT climax without the visual image of my husband having sex with another woman. I've tried to figure out why I have this particular fantasy, and I after to talking to a few friends who do not share my fantasy, but have different fantasies that I do not share, I realize that our fantasies our really based on our own personalities, turn-ons, etc. I am turned on by seeing someone else totally turned on. I know my husband is turned on by me, but there is nothing like that that new relationship energy... that first time sex. So visualizing him with someone else, is basically visualizing two people at the height of that new sex arousal, witch is like 10 times more potent than married 5 year plus arousal.

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that's exactly how I feel.
I love giving pleasure to my wife, watching her turned on and hot gets me going...and she feels the same way. Sometimes we'll role play, pick different names for each other and call each other by those names while having sex...it gets pretty hot then...

I just recently started fantasizing about my boyfriend of 14 years having sex with or getting oral by another woman. I have no idea why this fantasy started now, 14 years into our relationship but it gets me hotter than anything else.

I think you are getting more comfortable with your sexuality and your relationship is more secure. For me watching my loved one getting hot makes me hot...

I actually have the fantasy of watching my hubby with another woman it turns me way on i=we did this before we got married but wish he would now as well

Yes, I have the those thoughts. I told my husband about them and of course he was game as long as i join in. My point is if you both set some ground rules, love, and trust each other. Have fun with it. It's your life and marriage. Do what's gonna make you both happy. ;D

hahaha!! Well for me it started with thoughts of him having sex with another woman while we were having sex. Then I brought it up on time during intercourse. He said to me "Na, not another woman, How bout another man join us to help me pleasure you"? He said that would turn him on to see me with another man?? I was shocked!! but not scared of the idea. We joked and joked for a few months about it, and everytime while in the middle of intercourse. He would always say to me when inside me, "pretend this is another guy inside you" I would close my eyes and picture someone else fking me while my husband was laying next to us kissing, rubbing, and touching me. I started finding myself thinking about it alot while at work. So one day It drove me crazy that I asked him if he really wanted to try it, that I would. We ended up finding a swing party going on in the city near where we live. We met a guy who was working there as a host. My husband asked me what I thought of him? I thought he was attractive and extremely funny. I was a bit nervouse cause I am a very petite girl, half asian only 5'3" 105 lbs. This guy was like 6'2" and very well endowed!! We both felt comfortable enough to invite him over one night during the week. after about three weeks of getting to know him we had our moment. The two of them were so gentle and respectful. I truley enjoyed EVERY moment of the experience. Everything was like in slow motion. We fked for hours hahaha!! played adult games, watched porn and took pictures. We were all just having fun! For my husband and I it was for us to enjoy as a couple. something for us to remember, to experience together. I enjoyed it so much that one night about a month later out of the blue while my husband and I were in the middle of having sex the phone rang, it was the guy. My husband invited him over, told him the door would be unlocked to just walk in and that we were in the back room LOL. That was our second encounter with him. We haven't done it since then. That was back in 2003. We have talked about it but nothing real serious. Michelle

I too feel totally turned on at the thought of my husband having sex with another woman. we have discussed it at length, and he has decided to do it, so long as i feel 100% comfortable with it. recently he has found a woman he would like to get to know a little better, and possibly have this experience with.
however, the problem is now, that because it feels like it is becoming a reality, i literally cannot concentrate on anything else apart from this, i feel like i want it to happen right now!
but my husband is quite choosy, and will only look for a certain 'type.'

Recently, I started having this fantasy, too. I can't understand why this is a turn on for me. It doesn't even seem normal or healthy. It's good to know that I'm not the only wife having this fantasy..