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Q: was it the right thing 2 do breaking up with him??
asked by: msladiijay on March 12th, 2008
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Crying or Very sad I broke up with my boyfriend today, ever since I told him I'm pregnant, he stop taking me out! (i'm 8months pregnant now) he doesnt take me out nowhere. I am 5yrs older than he is Rolling Eyes b-4 I got pregnant we use 2 go out a lot now all he does is come over with little movies, I was OK with that for a while but now it's like I'm sick of it.

Today he calls me & hangs up on me, he said b-4 hanging up "i dont feel like talking, I just want to know your OK" & I tryed calling him back & he never picked up my calls.... Sometimes I feel like I dont even have a man he only comes over on the wkday which he leaves to work in the morning, so it's like I'm not really with him but while we sleeping.



did I do the right thing???? I send him a text telling him it's over! I just got really upset that he would tell me that he didnt feel like talkin on the phone & on top of it not picking up my call!! I think that just did it 4 me, I would never do that to him "NEVER!!" I would give him a reason to why I dont feel like talking.
I feel like he doesnt loves me at all Sad .

Sad Pleaseee help!! Need some advice Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad

we been together for about 2years
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Lafi
replied on April 7th, 2008
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hey
I think u did the right thing, I think he cares about u, but is not mature enough to handle the situation. Just wait and see what happens, did u try talking with him? If he is looking for you and really wants u, and be there for u during the pregnancy, then u should thinkin about taking him back, but if he doesnt, then its obvious that u made the right choice.

I have the same problem, Im just thinkinabout breaking up right now, its so hard. My bf says he wants the baby, but he doesnt do anything at all, he thinks helping a pregnant woman is taking her to the doctor and paying for the bills. I have to do all the housework, its a huge house btw. (more then 500 m2), after I worked more then 8 hhours, and he is still mad at me for falling asleep so quickly. he doesnt even want to read about pregnancy on the net, and is angry with me for all the few symptomes I got (thankfully I dont have the morning sickness) and on the weekend when we would have time to do somehing together, he goes and spends then whole 2 days with his friends, only comes home to sleep.

Yesterday I got home after 22 pm (i had to go to a work dinner) and i had so many things to say, and wanted to ask coz he had job interviews, and he didnt even wanted to talk, cuz there was something on tv! And when i stood up and headed tothe bedroom he started yelling get out! (pointing at the door)...

And on the other hand I was talking with my first bf he is in canada (we dont talk that often) and he even told me he would raise the kid (I know he said the truth).

So what do u think I should do?
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