hey everyone,
i live in alberta and am waiting to adopt. my hubby and i are looking for a girl and we are so excited that we are now eligible (our son just turned 1), but our adoption worker hasnt called us in months, not even to return our calls and we only had 2 home studies left. with out this completion we cant be put on the list to find a baby girl yet and im devastated. i feel so powerless and crushed. we are going through the 'system' rather than through an agency because we beleive that all the babies need to be loved. what do we do? i would love to find a baby on our own but i dont even know where to start. i have heard of heaps of unfit mothers or women who dont want to be parents, yet these babies stay in their home, unwanted and mistreated and i am still waiting. its so sad.
anyone have any suggestions? i really want our kids to be close in age so that they will be well bonded, and i have a day home so it would be opportune for us right now. i dont want to let this pass us by.