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Four years ago i had an abortion and than last year i had another abortion due to some personnel problems...and now my husband and i are trying to concieve but nothings happening,its only the second month now that we are trying is it possilble that i cannot fall pregnant ....
i last got my period on the 20 of january and we did that whole 14 days waiting for ovulation period so it is possible that i am so i am waiting to see if i get my period and at the same time scared ,what if i cannot have any children ,,i do have a son and he is 5yrs already ,,,please help Question
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replied February 12th, 2009
youve only been trying 2 months?
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replied February 12th, 2009
Hi
Yes only two months ,but the thing is that this thing about abortion is playing on my mind so i am not sure just need advise
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replied February 12th, 2009
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it takes an average couple about a year to successfully concieve.

also your mind is else where while trying to concieve. your thinking of the 2 abortions you had while also thinking of getting pregnant, and your stressing yourself out.
when your stressed your body is acting weird and could be the cause for an unsuccessful pregnancy.
a friend once told me that a woman she knew was trying for a baby for years, they took fertility drugs, all helpful advice from there doctor, still nothing. then they adopted, and a year after that adoption they had there own baby.
the stress of having a baby was out of there mind and it naturally happened on its own.


the two abortions are in the past. whats done is done, now is time for a clean slate. forget everything in your mind, and just think pleasant thoughts, you will fall pregnant when its time.
but dont get stressed out if it doesnt happen right away, because it will happen.

if you still are unsure, talk to your doctor. tell him about the 2 abortions and maybe he or she can see what is going on or give you helpful advice too.

good luck hun.
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replied February 12th, 2009
THANKS PROUD MOMMY FOR THAT ADVICE I AM GONNA TRY NOT TO STRESS AND HOPES IT WRKS SOON ..I SEE THAT STRESS PLAYS AN IMPORTANT ROLL IN PREGNANCY
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replied February 12th, 2009
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it deffinately does, just try doing things you enjo and make you feel happy.
and if still not successful see your doctor.

good luck again
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