|I have, and it's TOO common. Have you considered praying? Prayer does so many things, many measurable and empirically recorded.
But the wisdom is what you need, so you know what to do from there. Desperation often makes prayer an option, and honestly, a lot of people get what they need during prayer, and can find help there.
Be sure to ask specifically for what you want or need. This type of surrender relieves you of the responsibility and clears your mind to hear answers in the form of intuition.
Find people who can pray with and for you, people who love you and believe you, no matter what.