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Q: Virgin - penis size ?

asked by: Thermal7 on May 21st, 2009

New User

Hey guys and girl
new poster here, and im actually not sure if this is even the right area of the forums for this, but here we go lol

well as the subject says, im a virgin and i got some questions lol
to start with, im 20, less than a month from being 21, have never had sex, and im haveing some trouble lately, i have dated a few girls this past year, and well the cloths comes off the foreplay start but before we have sex i tell them "before anything else happens i just feel like i should let u know, im a virgin" they are always like wut, and then they stop and it inevitibly causes a break up a few days later
i mean seriously, do they just not want to have sex with a virgin or what, and yea i know pretty much everyone loses it in highschool, but i didnt
idk, i guess it could be my penis size, but i dont think im small, i mean im only a little over 6 inches long, and pretty close to 7 in girth. but from what i hear alot of girls like girth alot more than length
but its not like i have no sexual experience, i have made pretty much all my girl friends orgasm with fingers or mouth before the break up
so im just wondering if i just keep getting girl friends that only care about sex, or if im doing something wrong
well any advice or insite anyone could provide will be greatly appriciated
Thanks

Replies(13)

worrywart01

replied on May 21st, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Do NOT feel ashamed of this! I personally do NOT like my man to have alot of sexual history..it grosses me out knowing that he's been with many women before me...I got lucky, my current boyfriend has only had one sexual partner before me..i was relieved..as for you, if a girl is turning you down bc you're a virgin then thats ridiculous..there is NOTHING wrong with you...if I were with a guy and its his first time it would make me feel special...i think maybe the girls you were previously dating were looking for an "out" before you got in the sack and started to have sex..maybe they were just using that as an excuse...wait for the right girl...she will respect and cherish the fact that you've waited so long...

Thermal7

replied on May 21st, 2009

New User

hmmmm maybe ur right
was never together with any of them for more than 2 or 3 weeks lol
and yea, i know, everyone tells u to wait for the right person, cuz it will be so much better, and i agree that sex with someone u dont really care about is pretty much meaningless and just a physical act. but i just dont want to be like 30 and still be a virgin lol, i mean i know 13 year olds who have had sex already lol
but thanks for ur reply : )

worrywart01

replied on May 21st, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

13 is TOO YOUNG! oh my goodness!if you were with them 2-3 weeks then its possible that they were just looking for a sexual relationship and when they found out you were a virgin became uninterested...the right girl will come along Smile

just give it time..being a virgin is not the worst thing in the world...i think its admirable

Thermal7

replied on May 21st, 2009

New User

haha yea, but most my age dont find it admirable weird, i dont know how old u are, but pretty much only girls in that say its a good thing are in their late 20s or early 30s and think im to young to date them, personaly age doesnt matter to me lol

worrywart01

replied on May 21st, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

I'm only 22 haha...and what you say is correct..when you find the right person it will be worth the wait

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Thermal7

replied on May 21st, 2009

New User

ok, ill take ur word for it lol
honestly wondering if the whole width > length thing is true or not tho
i mean im completely comfortable with my penis size (as unsual as that is especialy for a virgin) but im just curious!

Jazzy77

replied on May 21st, 2009

Experienced User

thermal7...i wonder if the way you're telling these women you're a virgin is indicating to them that you want to STAY that way.

on the other hand, if they aren't really serious about you, then they probably don't want to be your first because they're concerned you'll be attached to them or something...

in any event, you'd be better off waiting until you are in LOVE with someone (not just a 2-3 week fling) before you start throwing the clthes off and telling them that you're a virgin.

there are lots of nice girls out there who would want to be with you, so don't sell yourself short.
jasmine

Thermal7

replied on May 21st, 2009

New User

yea i have thought of that jazzy, and u may be right, but i mean i dont really say it in a way were its like hey get off me, i dont want to have sex with u lol
like the last one for example, we were going and stuff, i told her i was a virgin, and thought she should know, she was like ur jokein right, when i said no she just walked out of the house and told me not to call her again lol

but i mean they clearly want to have sex after we have went out for 2-3 weeks, so how am i supposed to know if its gonna be a fling or if it could turn into the real thing afterwards

and thanks for your reply Jasmine!

Jazzy77

replied on May 21st, 2009

Experienced User

hi thermal7...i hate you had that experience with the girl who walked out on you. she'll have to pay for that kinda attitude when she meets her maker.

that's sort of surprising behavior for a girl. i'm 27 and i find it un-freakin'-believable. i can't imagine that there's that much differences in our age groups. maybe she's just a total jerk, or maybe she was a "lady of the evening" or something (at least mentally)?

oh well, i bet 99.99% of women wouldn't be that way because like myself, we were all virgins at one point in time, and maybe being a female is a little more vulnerable as a virgin than being a male is.

oh well, best of luck to you. i hope it all works out well for you. as my daddy used to say, you've got to kiss a lot of toads before you meet the handsome prince. maybe you have to kiss a lot of toads before you meet your beautiful princess.

Smile

jasmine

Thermal7

replied on May 21st, 2009

New User

well thanks Jasmine, but yea unfotunantly it did happen, but o well, ill get over it lol

Thanks!

worrywart01

replied on May 22nd, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

i dont want to judge here but..typically it takes longer to get into a girls pants than 2-3 weeks IF she wants to be taken seriously by you...I personally wouldn't sleep with a guy 2-3 weeks after dating him, he'd have to wait alittle bit until we've both decided to be committed serious and monogomous...try waiting alittle longer before getting to the sex part..make sure the relationship is well established BEFORE

blahblahblah222

replied on May 23rd, 2009

New User

Hmmm

Jazzy77...you really think 99.99 % of women wouldn't act like a jerk to this guy?? Get real! Women will do and say mean things in the bedroom. Trust me, I am hung like a horsefly, so I've heard hurtful things. If anything, women are more apt to say something rude than guys in the bedroom.

That being said, Thermal, I do think it's a good idea to be upfront BEFORE you are taking your clothes off about being a virgin. These girls just wanted some casual sex and a virgin will probably not be enjoyable for casual sex.

So, wait for a long-term relationship before getting some, or else face further humiliation. Trust me on this.

Just be thankful you don't have a small penis as well.

pregnantforthefirsttime

replied on May 23rd, 2009

New User

maybe they don't want to have sex with you cos you kind of ruin the moment when you are getting all horny and ready for sex and then all of a sudden you say oh actually...maybe you should just not say anything at all and let the woman do all the work. if she thinks you're crap afterwards then you can just say you were a bit drunk or something. i am a girl and if some guy said to me in the middle of it by the way i am a virgin i think it would put me off too but not because he is a virgin but because you lose the flow of it. if you dont want to wait to find someone meaningful to have sex with then just find someone nice who you get on with. i am not together with the first guy i had sex with and probably most people aren't. in face i hated the first few times i had sex. practice makes you better and you enjoy it more. good luck

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