Erm...
If it wasnt vaginal sex then you are still a virgin?
Beck

you think it was in your ass? wouldn't you feel the difference hun i know i wud!!! lol you will still be a virgin is you have had no vaginal contact with a penis Jenny

Once you have had oral intercourse, anal intercourse, or vaginal intercourse, it is "Sexual Intercourse". Which will disqualify you as a Virgin. VIRGINS do not have SEXual intercourse. It is simple & I don't understand the confusion behind this. But then confusion is the opposite of simple. If you don't know where the penis is being placed either you are too young for sex & should age or you haven't learned your body. So lets wait until we do one or the other. Lets hope you will find someone who cares enough to be gentle and not cause you to bleed. Hope this helps

nah it has to be proper intercourse to cause a child like vaginal intercourse! if u didn't use a condom you would get pregnant there not in your mouth etc, the others aren't the real deal intercourse's.

First I think she means is her hymen broke. If it was in your vagina yes it is and if in your ass you would really know...2 differnet feelings! Way different!!! I mean it was once a year ago it might hurt you again if you do it now cause when things don't get stretched out like when having regular sex it will hurt after to long! If your confused I agree with above your to young! Keep it tight!

im 19 years old

and yeah but when had sex i knw nothing about sex

how i can be sure if im virgin or not?

without going to a doctor cuz i cant go to a doctor
cuz n my country virginty is important

Honey: Whether any penetration was made or not, you are your own person..A free woman....No country has the right or should TRY to dictate the rights of a woman...If you have to stand alone, do it, but keep quiet...

Your hymen, which is the only telltale sign of virginity, could have been broken at many times in life...Enjoy the years of pleasure ahead of you...

Take care,
Caroline

Well technically you are not a virgin, but sometimes hymen does not fully break after the first intercourse. Some girls won't bleed at all. Hymen is not that important, even a doctor might not say if you are virgin or not, some girls are born without a hymen, some girls break it due to exercising (like dancing, or gymnastics). You can still go around and act stupid like you have never done it before =). I know some cultures have big issues about girl's virginity, but I mean as long as you keep it to yourself no one's going to find out. I hope they are not going to put out the bloody blanket in front of the whole village, like things used to be done the old times.

If your vagina bleed that day that means it wasn't in your butt.

ok here's my question
me n my bf were in da sea n we got a bit excited he held me tight n then his penis touched my vagina but up on my n his swim suits n i didnt feel peneteration but i felt sth i dunno wat is it but it didnt hurt
and btw it was my last day of ma period so i felt sth leaking from my vagina but i dunno wether its period or i popped
plzzzz help me i cant go to a doctor so plz plz plzzzz let me knw im soo scared plzzzzzzz reply

I so totally agree with this. If it isnt sex then it wouldnt be called oral SEX or anal SEX. To many of our youth these days use the "im still a virgin cuz I did it in the ass not the vagina" excuse to have sex and remain "pure" at the same time. Sex is sex and we need to quit accepting the Im a virgin crap when there has been some kind of penetration somewhere. No, your not a virgin and if you have to ask you shouldnt be messing around with sex in the first place.




And this is a prime example...real deal intercourse? really?

but guys i didnt feel penetration and it was up on our swimsuits,plzzz read my post well and reply plzzzzzzz...

manar i think they were replying to the original post....anyway....You will not be pregnant so stop worrying and yes you are still a virgin If it didn't go in and you didn't feel pain then everything's fine ..Jenny

sry. yes, I was replying to the original post. If you had your clothes on and he didn't pull your shorts to the side or something then it would have been impossible for him to enter you. However, don't let the no pain thing fool you. If you have sex and it is painless it doesn't mean you didn't have sex. It's not always painful for everyone the first time and not everyone bleeds the first time.

thx....
yeah we both had our swim wear on,so its impossible for him to enter right?!!!
and i have other question does the hymen ever interact again?!!!!!!!!

To the original post,(nosha)
You said that you think it was in your ass. You telling us that you don't know which hole he had it in? Do you have any feeling down there? Which part was bleeding; was it your ass or vagina? Do you know your body parts by name, if so" then; what one he had his penis in?

Hello nosha,
Where was his penis, was it in your vagina, or was it in your butt? The ass was made for exit only, and if anything more than the size of a finger enters it; it will be too painful to bare, esspecially for a young virgin like you! The ass is not a receiving entrance; exit only. Some women uses it as an entrance, but it muscles are not designed to stretch, and you will easily know when your man has entered the wrong door. The vagina is made, and designed for entrance and exit, it streches to accomedate any size penis! Hpoe this helps, just want to educate you on body parts.

I beg to differ. The sphincter is designed to stretch and contract. Sphincter...the ring of muscle in your butt. If done right, many things more than the size of a finger can be very pleasurable and not painful at all. Still, a person would know the different sensations and be able to figure out where the penis is. Just want to educate you on body parts.

Nosha,
Definitely you are not pure anymore and it means that you are not a virgin anymore. But if you are talking about the physical virginity here is my opinion:
It is your first time so I assume that you are the one at the bottom. If you're partner is also a virgin like me(joke), probably he may point it to your vagina. If you didnot feel hurt it means that ur hymen is still intact, but you mension that you are bleeding, so I guess it was ur vargina. It will be hard for him to do it in ur "ass" if there is no lubricant. Congratulations! You are not a virgin anymore!!
"Always remember premarital sex is not good.." -Einstein

is it possible to bleed if it was in my butt?
cuz wht i remmber the bleeding was from my butt and i stayed for few days feeeling pain when i set