my period last april 14 lasted for about 3-4 days. the first 2 days are heavy.

It is unlikely you are pregnant. However, to know if you are or not, you should take a pregnancy test.

If there was ANY penetration there is a risk of pregnancy.

I don't want to scare you, but even though it is not likely you are pregnant, it could still happen. If you get semen close enough to enter the vagina, some of those little sperm buggers could just find their way in. Let's hope for the best, but you need to know there is a small possibility. Good luck, and better be alittle more careful next time!

yeah i know that. but when i ask my sexually active friends, they tell me that its very imposible that i might be pregnant and i must stop worrying. but i cant. its the first time i got delayed thats why im like this. tho he kind of penetrated its only for a few minutes. 2-3 mins. at first he just rubbed his thing on my vagina. im very scared. tho i now finished studying, i think im not ready yet to have a baby. i havnt had sleep. and for the last 2 weeks ive been thinking about this.

You haven't said anything that changes the situation at all. Go get a pregnancy test, take it. When it turns out negative, go to planned parenthood and GET SOME BIRTH CONTROL (its free) for the future. Your parents never have to know. Then DO NOT EVER let a man's penis near your vagina (even 'just to rub') without a condom on.

thanks mabel. much appreciated. another thing i forgot and i dont consider as relevant but i want know, (for my peace of mind) last april 29 we made out but he only fingered me and in return i gave him a hand. i didnt even take my pants off. does this affect my delayed period?

Mabel is right. You sound young, and the sad truth is too many young people have sex when they know absolutely nothing about how to do it properly. The best thing is NOT to, but we all know you aren't going to listen to that, so get some protection if you even remotely THINK you are going to get into a situation to have sex. If not, you can enjoy taking care of another human being for about 18 years of it's life, with a co-parent you probably no longer even bother with or care about! It's not worth it in the long run for a few minutes of sex, and the child is the one who will suffer the most.

yeah. i dont have any plans in having sex with him. we're just making out and things got out of control. i think im still a virgin coz when i tried to finger my self, i cant coz it hurts. am i still a virgin? im 22 years old and yeah im so clueless about it coz i dont to it regularly.

please respond.

If I had a dollar for every child that was born because things got "out of control" during a hot makeout session, I'd be living like Bill Gates! Us women always need to take care of ourselves first. Guys are always going to try and have sex with you, and it's so much better when you are well informed. There are plenty of books on the subject if you are uncomfortableasking friends or family. You could still be a virgin, or you may have even ruptured your hymen long before doing something else. The only one who could tell you for sure is a doctor. It could hurt when you insert anything up there because you may be small also. I'd just chill for now sweetie, and wait for that period to come. Try not to be nervous, because that could cause you your period to delay too. It will all work out, and if it does, next time you will be ALOT more careful!

you sure? im like crying and nervous since ive been in this site reading all the stuffs about pregnancy. so the cramps and heartburn ive been experiencing is just part of my pms? whats the percentage that im not preggy? for now, i just need assurance and someone to talk to. i apprecite ur reply so much. and im so thankful to you. rar im crying now.

I GOT MY PERIOD ALREADYY! thanks to all the responses. ill definitely be careful nexttime. thanks so much!

Thank God! You got a free pass this time honey! Here's hoping you remember it the next time passion comes around! Take care!

I really think that you need to talk to your mom bc if at anytime youare that close to having sex!!!! You need to be protected!!!! I would tell every teen that bc I know that if any of my children would come to me I would not a prove but would rather them come to me and talk to me!!! Than get preganant!!!! I really feel that parents need to know!!! Ofcorse it is going to hurt them but it is better than coming to them to tell them you are preganant!!! Please Teens really do this!!!