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hi! ok this is what happened... my boyfriend to be and i moved to second base, which is 'handjobing' each other. well this was my first time and ive never had put my fingers inside of my vagina... and while he was playing with my clitoris and putting his fingers inside of my vagina he did it kinda hard, so it did hurt. the next morning i remember that my lower part hurt a little and when i went to check it in the bathroom i saw that my underwear had like two drops of dry blood. Im not sure were did that come from: from my vagina or from an open wound created the night before...? what im trying to ask is that can a handjob actually break that thin pice of skin that's inside of your vagina or not? and if it can, then does that mean that im not a virgin any more? (sorry for my not specific terms he he he :") )
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replied August 19th, 2009
ur still a virgin... there was no penetartion of the penis
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replied August 19th, 2009
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The hymen (the piece of skin in the entrance to the vagina) can break for many reasons, exercise, a hard bump (gymnastics, horse back riding), tampon use, sex or fingering to name just a few.

The hymen is thus not an indication of virginity. Virginity can have two meanings, sexual purity or no intercourse (penis inside the vagina).

As you did not have intercourse, you are technically still a virgin, even though you are no longer sexually pure. This is regardless of the status of your hymen.

Please be careful with sexual play. Rather be safe than sorry.
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