I think that everyone is different and the fact that it gets small when not aroused is normal. Just how small is different for everyone. I am sorry to say that there is nothing you can do to make it longer besides plastic surgery.

Also the average length of an erect penis is 5 1/2 inches to 6 inches.

Just ignore the guys who makes fun of your size.

-Peter

dont' worry about it, like petery said, everyone is different. if u reach avg length when erect then it's fine. besides it's been shown by polls that majority of ladies don't put penis size high on their list of attributes they want in a guy. and if they do maybe u might want to not date them.

as for the guys in the locker room, why are they looking down there to begin with?
you sure none of them were pitching a tent?

don't worry about girth i am about .75 in but in terms of length your ok when it counts 5 1/2 in is ok i am the same btw if you want it to look bigger when soft just shave the base of your dick

well i wouldnt say dont worry about the girth, because its a plus, i was readin in a study that the upper 3/4 of a womans vagina they cannot feel, they can actually only feel 3 to5 inches of their vagina. im only 6 inches long and pretty pretty fat, and it seems like every chick i have had sex with love it. And they talk to there friends about. Ive hear chicks complin because people are to thin. But I owuldnt worry about it to much I guess, you are what you are..porn is no good so dont pay any attention

Yeah man, don't worry about it. A lot of guys have small penises when flaccid. Sure, it can weigh on your mind, but just try to forget about it. I've talked to my friends about it, and it seems pretty damn common.

My penis is only 3 inches when soft and 4.50 inches long when hard.

Well mine is like 1 in when is soft and I am 7 in erect, I believe it has to do with the fat too, I still has a belly. I am trying to loose some weight and my let you know if it change. I hate gyms everybody is with their dicks hanging around and mine does not and I am not going to get a hard on in a locker room, that does not happen. Maybe all of them are gay and get aroused by other men and we are straight, think about it???

Hey everybody.. I'm a straight, 28 year old male. Just wanted to put this up because it made me aware that there are others who have the same problem and I feel a lot better and at ease since I ran into this thread... hope my 2 sense helps somebody in the world feel better too.

My earliest memories of dealing with the issue were around puberty in the group showers at camp. I admit I personally have the smallest flacid penis I have EVER seen. Its practically inverted into my body sometimes, most of the time its a little nub poking out with the balls snug close to my body. If I get a semi and I'm turned on that day and have not masterbated the night before, it can hang for some of the day and looks a little more normal.

Heres the kicker... I have a perfectly normal size penis, anywhere from 5.5- 6.5 depending on how turned on I get. I've gotten a lot of complements from women for my size and I know I'm not even in the realm of small. I actually love to show it off erect because eyes light up, I am very proud of it. I'm definitely no porn star but I like it, its great.

But every time I take a piss I have to to admit it, it really bothers me and I try to stretch it out daily.. which helps for a little bit but eventually it returns to its child like state.

This 'condition' if you want to call it that is not genetic.. I have seen my Dads and Brother's penis in the changing room at the same gym many times and when soft, they're huge in comparison, thicker shafts that hang and their balls are hanging lower off their bodies.. they look perfectly normal. I must look like I have the smallest penis to them which is as embarrassing as you can possibly get! So I rarely will change, shower or expose myself soft anywhere now days as you would imagine. I have never seen my families penis's erect (very strange if I did) but I assume theyre no bigger than me.

When I was a kid I was given so many comments I actually have accidently sexualized the humilation, which is the worst thing you can do for your ego and I'm trying to beat that at the moment.

But the reality is that I have a perfectly normal if not large adult erect penis.

The cause is unknown as far as I've researched. I'm thinking it must have something to do with early development and hormones is my best guess. I know I was a post baby (a week or two late) could be that and my Mother did have hormonal issues herself (3 miscarages).

If you're out there dealing with this too, we're probably in this for life, I'm certainly not going to take any strange pills or surgery... thats a big hell no!

Hey, we got it where it counts and we know what we got.

But it is a funny problem.. guess you have to deal with it in humor. Thank my lucky stars that I was given what I've been given but you wont catch me showing it off soft. It's funny, what an irony... you're given a beautiful thing for women... and men must feel very very sorry for you.

All good.... bigger things in my life to deal with than penis size