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Q: Very Depress, feel like nothing

asked by: running45 on June 10th, 2009

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My girlfriend just told me to move out after only living there for 3 months. She and i gave my things away and i dont have very much left now. I dont understand what happen, everything was great, i was so happy then one day she woke up and changed. She ignored me for a week and then the following week told me to leave. I gave so much up for her and i was so good to her. I took good care of her when she was ill, i helped her with meds and woke up in the night and listen to her complaints. I always stood by her side. And to kick me out and put me under pressure and rush me to find a place to live. I feel so bad and depress, hard to explain it all here. I was married before and my wife left me cuz she cheated on me and said she didnt want me anymore. I feel so bad that this has happen, i feel like garbage. When someone comes into my life they stay for a little bit then walk away like i dont matter. And to add to it my job is on the rocks too. I dont have many friends here i can go too and no family. My girlfriend use to always call ma and care about me until she changed, it was a wonderful relationship. I am very depress and feel like running but dont no where to go. I dont understand why people treat me like this.

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kdlee

replied on June 10th, 2009

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I am sorry you are going thoruhg this..I do think you need to talk with a councelor to see if you can get to the root of any problems..Sometimes people who are so devoted become so attached that they are more smothering than lover/friend..

It takes two people to have a relationship and to me yours seemed more one sided..

Talk with a councelor and then approach your next friend as a firend..Don't go over board in what you do and don't take over..Allow your friendhsip to grow..

One of your statemnts was (I was so happy) evidently she wasn't and you didn't notice..Why is that?

ServiceU

replied on June 10th, 2009

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i been through almost the same thing.
and to let you know she didnt change over night, she was feeling something and she decide to tell you.
i was happy with my ex, and he told me he's moving out and that he wasnt happy. we stayed together and moved in a house together, and a few months he told me he want to date, and he was going to treat me bad until i left. this man soaked up my money, feelings, love, everything. ive been with him for five years.
i got my apartment, job, lost both of them and had to live in a shelter.
so i know what your going through. i would never live with a man no time soon. i have my own place and i like it that way.
my advice to you is sit and think about what your going to do, where your going to live. and move on with your life. i know how hard this will be for you, if she doesnt deserve you, i m sure another will.
dont think it's just you, so many women feel the same way.

breck08

replied on June 10th, 2009

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May I ask how long you were dating? You have found yourself hurling towards depression. It is sad when anyone pours more into a relationship than the other. You are left with wondering "what did I do?" Now is the time to pull yourself together and stop the self pity. Seek help from a counselor to work through this and maybe help try to decipher why you are drawn to destructive relationships? Signs are almost always there and love is blind. It sounded like the nourishment was there but what about the communication? You abandoned your belongings for hers? It sounds as if she has a dominant personality? I do feel your pain. Some people have so much love to give and sometimes it is hard for others to reciprocate. This forum is an excellent place to vent and an insight to others opinion.

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