hello have oral sex before you do anything else. and my friend said to have a little bit of foreplay to get things started. and maybe just use sum lube or condoms so that it would be able to slide in better.

I did go down on her right before and their was alot of forplay since we werent planning on having sex and she provides ALOT of her own lube, the most of any girl ive ever been with, which i think is great, but she was extremely 'wet' down there but i just couldnt fit at all really. I usually play around down there with 1 finger, but i have used 2 fingers a few times so i didnt think it would be that hard to fit my penis in.