Sometime some women go through what they call "the second virginity", where the hymen is torn, but the vagina still so tight that it may tear a little and bleed slightly. Picture this: You're having a baby and your vagina isn't big enough for the head, and it can't stretch anymore....what's it going to do? It's going to TEAR. So, if you're trying to get your husbands well endowed package in your tiny space (and believe me, even if he is small, if you've never done anything, he may as well be the biggest in the world, because your vagina doesn't know the difference), you're gonna tear, which creates pain and bleeding, accompanied by soreness.
So, here we go:
Answer to #1: Your hymen broke and is gone, unless you're SUPER VIRGIN!
Answer to #2: Again, hymen gone. As far as if you should wait, yes! How long....until you have a plan on how to stretch you in intervals you can handle....fingering, licking, small toying or what have you. Just try something smaller than his penis, but bigger than the opening you have now.
Answer to #3: Have you ever watched porn? (Guessing "no" since you waited until marriage to have sex) I'm not a pervert, but I have seen porn where a big black guy was screwing a little Asian woman. My guess: No size isn't compatible if you work towards the prize.
Answer to #4: You have no hymen, so that'd be the last thing you need to go to the gyno for.
Tell you what, go online, or into a Hastings (if you have one) or a dirty adult book store (if you have one) or yet again....ONLINE, and find out some tricks of the trade for getting your grove on, with out the penis. You guys could try 69ing (you blow him, he eats you) then when you're so lubed from him exciting you that way, try sticking it in a little (but CAUTION: Blow him will increase blood flow, ultimately making him a little harder, thus a little bigger, than the big penis you had trouble with before).
I am not teasing you in any way, or trying to make you feel bad about yourself, I just know a little about sex, because I've been enjoying it since 14 (but with the man that is now my husband, so that's not so bad, huh?). I hope you guys can get past you being so small, but once he gets it in and starts getting you stretched a little, sex will be so awesome for you that you prpobably won't wanna stop (around here, we call it "nympho of discovery").
Good luck with your sex life. If you can just get past the hard part (ha ha, that was kind of a joke) you will enjoy the benefits of sweet, sweet success.
