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March 12th, 2009
Hello! I've been doing some research after a very recent baffling experience, however, I haven't found anything to answer the question. I have not had sex in 3 years, and when I was younger, I had a lot of sex. I just lost interest I guess. However, I still masterbate regularly and I just bought a vibrator. I had one when I was younger, but I burnt the motor out and was too lazy to buy a new one. Soooo...I got one of the rabbit vibrators, it's not a really big one. I've definitely had sex with guys that were bigger than this vibrator. When I tried to use the vibrator it would not go in. I was turned on, naturally lubricated, and I used a store bought lubricant. It felt like when I first had sex many moons ago, like I was losing my virginity all over again. Needless to say it hurt quite a bit. My first sexual experience was not a pleasant one.

I know that when you have sex, it tears the hyman, but would there be any reason for this to retighten??? I didn't push it and I'll probably try again I guess, but it's just really weird. I thought it would slide in quite easily. Anyway, any feedback would be appreciated.
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JavaMissus
replied March 12th, 2009
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When a woman does not have sex for a while her vagina will actually shrink up...You can see where this would be possible...You masturbate, but are not inserting something as big as the male penis...I am sure with time that it will loosen up...You may want to buy a small dildo to insert when you are aroused, to widen yourself out a bit...I have an electric Eroscillator which does the trick on me...However, if I did not have my husband to widen the gap, I would be using a dildo...

A few years ago I talked with a doctor...She was asking me questions on the sexual life of an older woman...In our conversation she told me of how older women, say 60 to mid-70's or so (an age was not mentioned) come in to her and they can't get a penis inserted in them...They have been too many years without sex....I believe they use dialators to help them with this problem....

What you are saying makes sense but I think you will be just fine....

Take care,
Caroline
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Sun385
replied March 12th, 2009
Thanks Caroline. I'm only 22. Well, for another hour, and then I'll be 23.

I guess I'm just scared of the pain. I need to get a smaller one I guess, and work up to it. I had no idea it could shrink. I was quite shocked when I was thinking it would slide in just fine and it didn't. I think I might avoid it and just get a small vibrator and wait until I have another serious boyfriend and deal with it then. Ugh. I'd rather just not have sex.
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JavaMissus
replied March 12th, 2009
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I am sure you are not shrinking...We kind of dry up...When you masturbate it is often the clit that shows us the pleasure...I guess this is why we need the pleasure of man....

I wouldn't worry about one thing...Just stay happy....You are so young...Honey, have the time of your life...

Caroline
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