My fiance noticed it first a long time after we starting making love, at least a couple of years. I never noticed myself before that time because I didn't have sex between relationships. I cannot really give an accurate account. However, two plus years of having regular sex with condoms would probably give me time to develop a reaction.
My fiance and I have been long-time users of latex condoms. I do have burning after having sex, but I associate that with friction and probably the latex. I do have some swelling.
I think that it could be something that I have always had. I know that the vagina is naturally textured, but I have never heard of small bumps.
I would think that in the nine years that I have been active (my first time wasn't willing), I would probably have developed some significant signs of HPV if I had it. I realize that HPV takes different forms, but these are very, very small, and reddish-shiny. The photos that I have seen of HPV the warts appear to be opaque; mine look more or less translucent. This is why I think it is eczema; they do look like the blisters I get on my hands.
I do try to look at myself frequently. I look really normal; I have a healthy color and have never experienced any unusual discharges or smells. I have never even had a yeast infection, but was subjected to a bad UTI when I was younger. I didn't wear cotton underwear; that is so important, I think, to good women's health.
I also don't believe that it is HPV because my fiance does not have any abnormal growths. He only has ingrown hairs. Although we use condoms to "finish," we actually initially start out with nothing-so if I did have HPV, I think it would be apparent on him as well.
Also, I think that the vagina is a very strong/resilient part of the body, so I know that it might be a little more difficult to notice symptoms. When my hands break out, it is hard to notice it until I start scratching.
I have not tried to pop the bumps because I do not want to injure myself. To get a little more personal, it is just beyond my hymenal remains, right at the entry. This might be weird, but do you have anything like that? It is like a fleshy, bumpy (tiny bumps) nodule of skin not even centimeters into the vagina.
I do appreciate your guidance!