I am sorry because I can't offer you an answer but I can offer you a sympathic ear. I have always had HORRIBLE PERIODS... I mean continuous, long, heavy, painful periods. As a teenager, they put me on BC pill (at 15) to help with the stability; however, by the time I was 19 I had been on so many different types of BC pills that would help for about a year and then stop. I stopped taking BC pills and it was better for a few years. Everything was calming. I still had heavy long periods but at least it was only once a month. Then a few years ago, it started again. I was having long heavy painful periods... ten days on, five to seven days off, ten days on, five to seven days off.... I was drained physically and emotionally, saw many doctors, and all of them just recommended getting back on BC pills or hyster. surgery. After many doctors, I am back on BC pills and its back to once a month (usually, sometimes twice) and its still heavy but it only last 7 days now.
All I can say is it seems women's body and our cycles are just too much for the medical world. I had a wonderful chiropractor willing to help me resolve the entire issue, but I's have to stop taking the BC pills to get back to a basic level... no masking symptoms from pills. Anyhow, I would suggest some alternative medicines... accupuncture, chiropactors, etc. And my man, has stayed with me for more than 10 years through this ordeal. I am sure he just wants you to be better because he cares. He is frustrated at the circumstances not you.