The one thing that I have learned being on eHealth Forum, firstly about even what HPV was with the high risk types. When my doctor called to tell me I came back positive with HPV and the potential risk of the development of cervical cancer, I hit the proverbial brick wall. Because, everybody in my father's side of the family has died of cancer. She told me she would send me to a GYN for further testing.
I went through the whole yelling and screaming bit with my former BF. I know for a fact I was in a very long term marriage and I never had any problems. Then my husband died and I just got too lonely even knowing this would end up in the trainwreak that it became, I finally caved in and was with him.
Everything was fine until that infection and he finally admitted he had been with that other woman.
We haven't been together for a long time but I did develop a genital wart which looked like a califlower shaped thing on my upper thigh. My doctor froze it off.
I know what you are saying about Lupis. I never felt I had any issues with my health until 15 years ago when I was exposed to mold in my new air conditioning system of a car we had bought. It was a black car and had sat in the sun until we purchased it at year's end. I would see white flakes coming out of that air conditioning system.
I became tired, weak and eventually sent to a doctor who said I had asthma. He put me on steroids for a year. I lost 40 pounds and became so weak I could not sit up.
I told my doctor to please send me to a doctor who could help me. He sent me to Dr. Wolfe who saved my life. He put me on a breathing machine and predisone. I asked him to please help me because my husband loved me. Do the best you can. He sent me to the hospital for 6 weeks every day for them to pound on my lungs to get the mucus out. Painful. I slowly made it back.
Perhaps that is why my immune system is compromised, too. The kind doctor on eHealth Forum said that maybe the others were able to battle this off, but I could not.
We have to look at the bright side Paula. We are here. God loves us. We live.
Take care of yourself,
Bobbie