It is called oral sex (cunnilingus) and it is more than just licking. It is also some GENTLE sucking and nibbling. It is one of the easiest ways for women to experience an orgasm.

Talk to he and find out if she wants you to. Once you do it, it is also advisable for her to guide your head and talk to you to tell you where and how hard and fast to lick. If she is giving you oral sex, it is god for you to return the favor.

The risks are of infections. If you have herpes on your lips (cold sores), stay away from her as it can jump to her genitals. If she have some sexually transmitted disease (STD) or sexually transmitted infection (STI) you can contract it. If you have any doubts about her having sex with other men and contracting some STD/STI, you should use a dental dam over her vulva before pleasuring her. You can make your own dental dam by cutting a condom open and placing it between your mouth and her vulva. It may also be a good idea for her to be tested for STDs/STIs if she has been sexually active before.

Another thing you should never do is blow air into her vagina. It is a strictly licking/sucking/nibbling technique - NO BLOWING.

I think that vagina licking is a bad use of child abuse. Say one day an adult is vagina licking and they leave the door open. Your chld walks in the room and sees what your doing. What do you expect them to do? Tell everybody or keep it a secret?

I think Vagina licking is a bad use of child abuse. Say one day your vagina licking and your 5 year old child walks into the room. What do you expect them to do? Teel people or keep it a secret?

So are u going to have no sexual interaction with your significant other because you have a child? Thats how marriages get ruined lol Just make sure you lock the door then...its not that hard.

lavender3499,

If that was even a consideration, all couples will have only 1 kid. They would be too afraid to make another one and maybe their child will walk in and see. "And what do you expect them to do? Teel everybody or keep it a secret?"

I am sorry you have been traumatized by your parents. Maybe you can seek professional help for what you saw when you were 5?