First Trimester of Pregnancy Forum - uterus or ectopic pregnancy

joy_23 wrote:

hi guys i wanted to share to you my grief and now my new blessings for i never give up hope!
I had an ectopic pregnancy 11\7\07 and had lost my right tube.I have been so helpless after the surgery and grieve over my lost baby.We wanted that baby so much my husband and i have been trying for about 2 years already.There's never been a day i forgot to ask the lord for another chance even just 1 baby.I was afraid to get pregnant again and have another ectopic that means i need to lost my left tube and cannot bear a child anymore for my husband.His family is talking about me a lot thinking i cannot give him a child for i had an ectopic it was such a painful experience.
The day before my birthday 03\15\08 about last week i had a pregnancy test and it was positive i was freaking out and was so nervous about it thinking i might have another ectopic.I have been stressed out and needed to wait a week to have an ultrasound.I prayed a lot and never give up hope. A week after march 24 i had a spotting and was so scared about having another ectopic and i need to rush to my obgyne to have an ultrasound.It was a very different feeling a feeling of relief i cannot explain a thing i just wanted to cry and thanx God for hearing my prayers i saw my 6 weeks baby in my uterus and having a heartbeat.My husband and I have been very happy.
To all the woman who suffers an ectopic pregnancy never loss hope and never think that if u had a previous ectopic means u will have another.Just pray and ask God for it and im sure he will listen.

Hi I was cerious as to if you had any pains in your belly after you found out you were pregnant, how long into your pregnancy did you find out and what were your symptoms? The reason I ask if Because I took a pregnancy test on 6/22/08 and it came out positive and so I made an appointmant but about a day after I found out I started getting a really sharp pain in the left side of my belly almost as if someone was pressing down with there thumb, it sometimes moves to the right side but it's mostly on the left. I called my obgyn and she asked if I was spotting and I said no then she asked if it hurts to where I cant even move and I said not really so she told me that it was normal to have pain early in a pregnancy but for some reason I just dont feel right and my app isnt till the 18th of June. I'm just really scaired because my husband and I want a chils so bad and I just keep thinking of every bad thing that could happen. I tried to look on the internet to see how long a toubal pregnancy can go for before bursting but I dont get any answeres, so there for I thought I might try this to see if you could give me any insight on how if felt for you so that I can put my mind at ease until my app.