So, I'm 15 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two weeks ago and we've had sex quite a bit since then. He came on my stomach the day I was ovulating but since it was on my stomach, I didn't think too much of it. I'm really swollen and I'm having lower abdominal pain. I'm bleeding very light and thin. I'm very young and have plans for my future and a child is not in them quite yet. Is this usual for having just losing my virginity and having so much sex? Please help.
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After first time intercourse you can experience pain and bleeding due to hymen rupture. Unless semen or pre-cum comes in contact with vagina, pregnancy does not result. If the pain and bleeding is persistent, or if associated with abdominal cramps and foul smell of vaginal discharge, then it could suggest infective causes (common after intercourse). Do not ignore your symptoms. Visit your doctor/gynecologist at the earliest for thorough evaluation to look for the underlying cause for you symptoms. Treatment as appropriate (based on your evaluation results) would be started to help you control the symptoms. Be in regular monitoring and follow-up with your treating doctor/gynecologist and report any new/abnormal symptoms immediately. Drink plenty of water. Take adequate rest. Maintain healthy diet and lifestyle. Avoid vaginal douching, use of harsh soap or perfumes in the area. Use loose cotton undergarments and avoid use of tight fitting clothes. Avoid sweat accumulation in the area. If infective cause is detected, and if you are sexually active, it is important to get your partner also treated simultaneously to prevent chances of re-infection, and avoid having intercourse while being on treatment. If you are not ready for pregnancy, but intend to remain sexually active, you should consider getting started on suitable regular birth control measures to be protected (that are safe to be used if you are breastfeeding). Avoid unprotected sexual contact within 2-3 weeks of getting started on hormonal contraceptive (as most of the hormonal contraceptives start giving you effective protection after 2-3 weeks). Be regular with birth control use as instructed. Avoid unprotected sexual contact if you are not ready for pregnancy.
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