As crazy as it sounds that does actually work. If you seem dissinterested, then he responds by trying to get your attention. I don't know, guys respond to no pressure, see you whenever kind of things. When I was with my boyfriend, the best time was when we cooled it off a bit and decided to be 'just friends' for a while. Cooling it off never he... more

I had this similar problem. I found writing it all down, everything, how you see the situation, your feelings, your perception of his feelings at the moment, the future, the past, things that you thought triggered the start of trouble, really clarify things. You could either send it him saying - things get lost in our conversation, or you could k... more

Has your lifestyle changed in any way? Has something happened to make you feel differently about something impirtant, like something someones done recently or said?