I find it only frustrating that most people's sense of self worth is contingent upon the validation of others. I feel that if someone constantly seeks approval and compares themselves to others, they are going to overlook what they have positively going for themself. How do other older virgins cope with being virgins? Maybe they don't have to cope.... more

Like who you are, be content on your own, and then put yourself out there. Keep an open mind, and be watchful of any one around you that might catch your eye, but don't rush in. Mostly be yourself, because if you like yourself you should attract others who like you too, and that's the point. If you aren't yourself or putting on an act no one will e... more