This is a tricky situation and although I agree with what other people are saying I think this girl is causing a lot of confusion which is making you even more upset. She is using you as a crutch when her relationship goes bad then when everything is all rosey again you are ditched to the side. Do u still see her? If you do maybe you need to be ... more

What if someone has too much respect and principles that what they are doing for the best isn`t really for the best? You love them and know your meant to be, so I don`t think I could set him free and if its right its meant to be, as much as I believe in this saying its too hard to put it into practice when its your own situation.

Thanks for your reply. I know what your saying as I always thought that anyone who said they were too busy it would only be an excuse. However being with him I now know its not an excuse. I know hes doing this as he thinks its only fair to me but its not. I will be talking to him soon hopefully when he gets back from working away and I guess ... more