Thank you for your reply. Its when I see all my friends and family that have children, their lives have become so hard and depressing in some ways, I dont want this, I fear this most. I think I have made myself focus on these points rather than the good points of being with someone. Belive me I know that when you commit to a relationship with s... more

Iam 21, and have never had sex or done anything with a guy, so now when I get into a relationship with someone, I dont know what to do, iam too imbarissed to do anyting to them, i know that sounds silly, but I cant, even when they do things to me I feel mortified, like fingering, I totally seize up and cant relax and I feel out of place, I dont ... more

Hi, I have been reading all of the messages left, really helpful, bit I just want to know which is the best form of birth control available, iam on the depro vira, but still I think I could get pregnant, my fear is so bad that I wont sleep with my boyfriend, this is my worst nightmare "becoming pregnant", iam mad about him but iam just so terrif... more