Ya you and your partner need to do everything nothing happens on its own. Most women enjoy this position since it gives them a sense of freedom and domination as well. One big advantage with this method is that the guy can last longer and the woman is able to orgasm multiple times inlike the missionary position where the guy is likely t... more

You may try pranayam which is set of breathing techniques that can really cure anything including your problem. Remember how much or how early your illness dies by doing pranayam depends on how much faith you have on it. Even if you have no faith but do it for at least 2 weeks, you;ll start seeing the result and faith will start gradually hence.

I do hope you two come together. Regarding preganancy, you may take a test after a few days to be sure, though if the two tests so far has proved negative then you are probably not pregnant most likely. Anywys I have found a good forum for relationship problems - Iwishisaidno.Com check it out and you may find it interesting. :)