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I am a well educated and well meaning advisor on the topics of sex and relationships as well as related topics. I am here with the intent of providing people useful information to make sound decisions. I admit that I am very intolerant of people who spread suspect folkl... Full Bio
The advice is applicable to every problem in a marriage, you can talk about communication styles or conflict resolution until you're blue in the face. At some point in every marriage you have to get past the problem or you have to get a lawyer. There is no right answer for everyone but you cannot go on just accepting things that aren't working and ... more
Your husband isn't gay. You've been sexually active with him in the past. It's certainly withint the realm of possibility for you to return to that intimacy. obviously something has happened to the intimacy in your marraige and you need to get to the source of that problem, understand, it and deal with it before things get worse between you two. Yo... more
Your sexuality is defined by practice. You've had sex with your own gender, not the opposite sex, you are gay, a lesbian. If later on in life you decide to give men another try perhaps you'll be bisexual.
My concern is that you seem very wound up about what feels like a very easy decision to me. You've had an unsatisfying relationship with a man a... more
W0LF / Relationships and Marriage on 06-27-2010 07:01am
It's not accurate to say that all bisexuals will always be attracted to both genders. It is normal for interest in one gender to wax or wain over time. What won't change is that a bisexual won't stop being the person that loves you. If they respected the relationship before theres no reason to expect that they would stop at any point simply because... more
You may want to take a read into immersion therapy. It was specifically designed to help people with irrational fears. The process is pretty simple. You could theoretically practice it without assistance.
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What part of this guy doesn't trip every red flag you have? Think about the best case scenario. You travel three states to visit him, he doesn't beat you up, he doesn't lock you up and prevent you from leaving. He just spends the holiday weekend acting like he does over IM's and Phone. He smothers you and obsesses about you. You know this g... more