In my opinion (I am not a doctor)...it is only a problem if YOU or your WIFE thinks it is a problem. Two minutes for first orgasm/ejaculation seems fast to me...but many (most?) men cannot have a 2nd and 3rd...

The little bit of blood is likely from slight vaginal tearing because you aren't wet enough. Use some extra lube. The bigger issues is the lack of desire and pain during intercourse and lack of natural lubrication...which I'd BET all has a common cause. The chances of all those symptoms being caused by an abortion are VERY small...at least the ch... more

Don't worry one bit. Wet dreams do NOT indicate he is unhappy with his sex life. It just happens to us, especially when we're younger. Wet dreams become less and less frequent as se age...I actually WISH I could have them more often...they are incredibly realistic and pleasurable.