Do you know how sexually active your girlfriend is? Active herpes also makes it easier to tranmit hiv. Best bet is to get your girlfriend tested first. If she is infected, it would be farther along and show up more reliably on the tests. If she does not have it, she can not give it you. Good luck, paul v.... more

I agree. The risk of hiv transmission from her to you is almost impossible. Some of her bodily fluids would have mix with your bodily fluids and then get back into you. According to what you described, that didn't happen. Lap dances with clothing inbetween is usuallay considered safe sex. You are lucky, paul v... more

Hi scared married guy the odds are pretty good that you don't have hiv or any other std. The type of sexual behavior that you described, if that is all you did, would only rarely pass along the hiv virus. While not exactly safe sex, it was low risk sex. And you only did it once for a short period of time. I am assuming that you washed your ha... more