rudderless
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32 posts since May 23rd, 2009
New User
Male
32 posts since May 23rd, 2009
rudderless's posts
I'm not sure men are completely hardwired to want to sleep with a variety of women although certainly men find many different women interesting and not just all of one sort only. I would put this in the same category with the assertion some men make that they just "have to have sex" or get off as if not having that experience will cause them pain o... more
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Troubled and Abusive Relationships
on 09-03-2009
Ask yourself if you would ever threaten someone you loved. Would you feel okay burning them? How about drugging them to make them more pliable - would you force drugs on them?
I think an honest answer to those questions is almost certainly NO! This person has done those things to you. You have already gone back more than once and each time it got ... more
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Troubled and Abusive Relationships
on 09-02-2009
Don't go back, seek therapy! Read some of the stories here to get an idea as to what you might be in for if you go back. He wants to marry you to posses you, do not fall for it! Call friends, call family, get out of town, change your number - do anything to escape. You are better than this and you deserve more! Franky, who cares what he might do be... more
Okay, one thing to consider - start light. Do a little spanking first, it will increase blood flow to the area and lessen the chance of a bruise - when it's a little red then maybe go a little harder. You probably ought to come up with a safe word. Something that allows you to ACT like he's having his way but a word that he understands means stop N... more
Tell him. If this is someone who cares about you sit him down and let him know what you've been through. Your reaction is pretty common I'd say - seen it myself. <sigh> Maybe let him know the difficulty you have taking a compliment, you shouldn't feel obligated to say anything if it's uncomfortable. Perhaps ask him not to be so eager to compl... more
Men look at p0rn. It satisfies curiosity and yes it can become addictive. Women often misunderstand and think that a man looking at p0rn means that he's somehow unsatisfied or that he's using it as a substitute for the woman he's with. I've been in perfectly happy relationships and still looked at p0rn, it wasn't because I felt my relationship was ... more
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