Im sorry to hear that. That happened to my friend she lost her girl at 22 wks the baby cried and everything but she died when they cut the cord in front of her... :( I havent heard from her since then and that was in april .
Yea ur not going to be thinking about having sex right away especially if u had an episiotomy. I bleed for like 3 mnths after the birth of my daughter. Its not fun :)