First of all your wife was not your wife when this happened...She was an 18 year old girl...IMO, it was her business...The fact that she told you about this shows that she trusted you with this information and loves you...Let's face it 31 years is a long time in a marriage...I, too, am married....Near 51 lust filled years...Before we were married a... more

Actually he is not stubborn, but pretty hooked on pot...Enough that making love comes in second...Until he is ready to put this mind altering buzz where it belongs, you are talking to yourself...Even then he will have to learn a new person...Believe me, I sympathize with you...It is the filling of man that completes a woman...Has he tried Viagra or... more

Hi roseangel and welcome to ehealth...Unfortunately I just saw your post...I hope your surgery went well...I am confident that the doctors took care of all the problems that you had...I just want to stress one thing...You must stop the heavy lifting and get off your feet for this 6 to 8 hours a day...Your body will not stand it...It is telling you ... more