I don't think she is threatening to cheat. That's ridiculous. She is missing something. A spark perhaps...It sounds like you are a very loving man and honest just to say she had one repo shot tells me you are the type to defend her because she means so much to you. It sounds like she is stuck. A major communication problem with you is going on.... more

don't get married-if you do , you are choosing to ruin someone's happiness forever- and it isn't your right. You simply are being selfish and so unloving. You may feel you made a mistake but you did it 2x, you will do it again. no doubt. Both of you aren't right for each other. Break it up and maybe he will find someone true to his heart, you a... more

that's horrible, very sad- i think your friend is going through some major trauma- she just takes off and abandons everything. She probably needs you and her family but can't face what has happened , even if she has a baby now. You sound young and I think she needs time to mature - find out her address and send her a letter telling her that you ... more