I'm a assertive and confident (nearly 40) young lady .. I've been married for 2 years ... and I'm a ginger !! I've got a serious back problem, which I do not intend to ruin my life, however, some days I just cannot move to save my life. I've recently had a discectomy, which has left me with a bad limp. However, being a full time Civil Servant, wife and step Mum, I rarely have any chance to feel sorry for myself anyway ;-) I am an animal lover - I have 2 beautiful cats, one is a younster, and the other is a wise old man. Youngster will learn from the older and wiser !! I'm a social person, and love to just sit and chat about nothing, I drink (socially) and I am a smoker,(gonna give it up) OK I'm rebellious too.. Oh Ah - I dislike selfish and conceited people ....

Anything Scientifically Interesting. Dr Who, Torchwood. Alien life / UFO ..and is there any life out there. Animals

I love life

Easy Listening, Heavy Metal, Opera, 80's

Anything by Stephen King

Horror, Sci Fi, Comedy

Paul's Place (charity for disabled people). Paul's place is named after my hubby's brother, who was in a car accident, putting him in a coma which left him disabled and brain damaged. Paul died a few years later .. hence the name, and the place people l

I'm an ordinary woman, no airs or graces, I've been thru the crap of everday living, and I've had deep depression, I also have a back problem .... but I refuse to let that get to me ... I have a loving Husband, who must have a patience of a saint at times, cos I'm a difficult person at times to live with ... Our lives are not a rehursal, this is it, and we must make the most of what we have, and make our dreams a goal, but life is not for winning, it's the taking part that counts....