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uio
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used condom but still worried
Posted: 08-28-08 09:36am
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hello
my last period was the 7th of aug, 08 nd
lasted till about the 13th. i recently had
sex the 25th. my boyfriend and i used a
condom nd we found no leaks or breaks in
it after sex, but he ejaculated not
knowing it and started to get soft and he
came out not knowing it. when i say came
out i mean him and the condom. the condom
didnt slip off. but it did rise up a bit.
we saw no sign of any sperm that could
have leaked but anyway i was just
wondering if it was likely for me to get
pregnant with these conditions. my cycles
are roughly 28 days apart and last about 7
days in lenght .PLEASE HELP!!!!!
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uio
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Posted: 08-28-08 09:40am
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it is now the 28th and i am experiencing
some lower back pain but id think it would
be way to soon to feel anything due to
preg. hopefully it is pms cause my next
period is due the 4th of sep one week from
today. any thoughts?
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Posted: 08-28-08 10:23am
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Don't worry until your period is late. It
is unlikely you are pregnant.
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uio
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Posted: 08-28-08 11:49am
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its hard not to worry though. this has
happened befor to me and all the worring
made my period 2 weeks late.
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Posted: 08-28-08 11:52am
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It is hard not to worry. If you want to
double up on your birth control, you can
take birth control pills AND use condoms.
Or use spermicide AND condoms. Diaphragm
AND spermicide AND condoms. These would
lesson your risk of pregnancy if the
condom happened to fail.
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uio
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Posted: 08-28-08 14:48pm
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thats true i would like to get on birth
control but i am 15, is there anyway i
could get it without parent
permission.Anyway there is no way i can go
through another month of this again so im
gonning to just not have anymore sex until
im mature enough to handle the
consequences on my own.
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Posted: 08-28-08 15:51pm
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| uio
wrote: | | thats true i would like to
get on birth control but i am 15, is
there anyway i could get it without parent
permission.Anyway there is no way i can go
through another month of this again so im
gonning to just not have anymore sex until
im mature enough to handle the
consequences on my
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hun i know exactly what your going thru,
and i'm going thru it now, but if the
condom didn't break it is very unlikely
you are pregnant
just try to relax so your period will come
on time! go shopping, get a pedicure, do
something fun to take your mind off of the
situation!
you could always go to planned parenthood
or another women's clinic in your area for
birth control (they'll let you know all
your options), they won't tell your
parents!
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Posted: 08-28-08 15:55pm
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no matter what i do the thought is in the
back of my mind im like possesed ugh.
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:01pm
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hun, trust me i understand! my period is
now 6 days late and i'm goint insane but
it's like no matter what I CANNOT stop
thinking if i'm pregnant. but i just don't
feel pregnant!
commen EARLY pregnancy symptoms are
extreme fatigure, breast tenderness and
breast and nipple pain, frequent
urination, and nausea as well with others.
but these symptoms don't usually appear
until after your missed period!
i hope you feel better!
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:04pm
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well hopefully my period will come and all
will be good, i just am so dissapointed
with myself ive been through this once
befor and sworn i wouldnt put myself
through this again.
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:07pm
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aw i'm sorry hun! is this only the second
time you've had sex? sex can also
sometimes cause missed or late periods and
stress definately can!
is there any way you can go to a clinic so
they can go over your options with you as
in getting birth control so you dont have
to worry?
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:13pm
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oh no ive had sex more than two times but
it was on my period so i didnt worry but i
was dumb then too cause it was unprotected
but idk i wasnt worried at all and it came
right on time. but i think my best bet is
to rerain from sex for a lil bit cus im
such a worrier id prob still worry even on
bc. and my boyfriend is turning 18 in a
couple months so thats a whole other
story.
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:22pm
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it's okay to be with an older man, it's
nothing to worry about it's a personal
choice so don't beat yourself up over it!
if you need someone to talk to PM me =)
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:27pm
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oh i dont regret being with him i love him
to death but he got me preg. while i was
still under 18 and he was over it could be
a legal issue
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:44pm
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uio, you can go to planned parenthood and
your parents never have to know you went
there. Birth control would be either very
cheap or free for you.
They also give FREE pregnancy testing.
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Posted: 08-28-08 16:50pm
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well i think after this i will not have
sex 4 a while
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