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me and my husband are now trying for a baby - but i'm really worried i won't fall pregnent. i usually have a wee before having sex. but straight after my husband has ejaculated and we get off each other. i have to go straight to the toilet to have another wee, but i also find what i think is his ejaculation coming out (like a whiteish sticky stuff), or is that me ejaculating?..........is what i'm seeing normal! obviously my husband ejaculates to a different hole than where i wee from - is my husband not going in far enough even though i orgasam? or is it some other reason? At first i thought it could be the pill that makes this happen. please help!
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replied June 11th, 2009
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Many women have posted the same question and I'm still confused as to why you are worried. The vagina does not soak up all of the ejaculate like a sponge. Gravity causes most of it to come back out. But you have to keep in mind that there are millions of sperm in ejaculate and only one needs to make it to the egg. If it makes you feel better, you can lay on the bed with your legs in the air for a few minutes after sex. But most of the ejaculate will still leak out once you are upright again.
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replied June 11th, 2009
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It's actually important to pee after sex to prevent urinary tract infections, especially if you are prone to them.
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replied June 12th, 2009
its not of the fact of having a wee afterwards, it's just that when i do make my way to the toilet i can't control it leaking out. and it just seems to be alot! thankyou both for replying - it has reassured quite a bit. Smile
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replied June 12th, 2009
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If you can't control it and it is urine, then you should see a doctor. Urinary incontinence could be a sign of something else, such as a UTI. In addition, doing Kegel exercises a few times a day can help you start to control your urine better. Kegels are flexing the muscles that you use to stop your urine. If you work on these, it should help. But still see a doctor to check things out. Besides, it's better to start on your prenatal vitamins before you get pregnant if you are planning to (unless you have started them already).
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replied June 12th, 2009
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I think your problem may be what I have...If it is just his ejaculate that is coming out, that is OK...However, I also have my ejaculate like you have yours and between the two, we can make one heck of a mess...My solution for you is to keep wash rags either under your pillow or night stand for catching this...I know how it can leak out...Maybe it is your knowing that you are filled that makes you feel you have to pee....We know this, but still lay in each others arms...It is too special of a time to leave....Good luck...

Caroline
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replied June 14th, 2009
Thankyou for your replies again. It's not urine that is leaking out but my husbands ejaculate. Just a little annoying when your making so much mess!
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replied June 14th, 2009
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One of the biggest problems of the woman is the mess of sex...I wonder what ever made us believe that sex was pure beauty?....Maybe the movies....Possibly like "The Thornbirds"....All the glory of romance...

Sex is erotic and fun....The rewards are endless....But it is gassy, wet, dripping ejaculate, sometimes clumsy and very often if it is during our periods, bloody....Yet, saying this, it is the most wonderful and pleasurable happening that I have ever had in my life...Forget the mess and get down and dirty and enjoy....

Caroline
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replied June 16th, 2009
Lol! believe me i'm not complaining about the sex, because your right the rewards are endless and loads of fun!
I just wanted to make sure it's normal!
Thanks everyone. x
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