Ok so i had an encounter about 14 weeks about with a girl and the condom had split during intercourse. I was worried to death that it was hiv and was getting so much symptoms but alot were most probably due to anxiety and stress. What i'm most concerned about is the swollen glands i've had which came 2 weeks after the encounter and still slightly swollen today (in the neck). My uretha is also abit swollen and i also had gotten thrush from this girl which recurred 2 or 3 times. I've also been feeling this itchy sort of feeling which feels like ants crawling on me. It hasn't just been in the groin but all over my body it';s very annoying and creepy. I sometimes feel a dull ache in the testicles and minor stinging like pains in the uretha but theyre faint and arent continuous but the only thing is i DONT have any lesions/???? my uretha is also swollen and i feel a slight stinging pain which lasts a few seconds then gos and will keep coming back time to time. could this be herpes without showing??????? i've had numerous tests over the 3 months as i was 100% convinced i had hiv and have tested out to 3 months being negative, i've also had std tests and out to 3months all negative but i can't get herpes test as they don't do it without any lesions can you please help me