When I was a teenage I wasen't like all the other teenagers I had no friends or anything. So that ment no partys or any fun stuff like that. It upsets me so much when I hear people talking about there teenagers or teenagers they know. It makes me really jelous.
And I feel upset now because I've just heard someone going on about having a bunch of teenagers in the house that you don't know and partying until 3 in the morning and eating all your food.
It upsets me because I never had any of this
i was physically, mentally, and emotionally abused by my father and i missed my childhood also , but as you grow up you tend to not care about stuff like this.
the parties they have, someone may have gotten drunk and threw up, got in trouble, grounded by their parents. that type of fun only last a short while and it's not important.
you have to focus on things that you are strong at.
Wow, sorry about the father-thing ServiceU. So anyways, I missed it all too, but hey, things you want always seem great and all....if you'd actually take part in all that party and drinking stuff you'd find out it's pretty boring and retarded.
i had a really handsome boyfriend when i as in my early 20's. he said how he was popular in school and how the girls loved him. he was black and Italian mixed. but when i dated him he was a bum that secretly sold drugs and lived a dangerous life of cheating people and people cheating him.
That's why i say those days arent important about how popular you are or how many friends you have.
as long as you have one quality friend you can confide in.
Being a teenager is challenging and oftentimes, confusing, having a party and staying out until 3:00 am at at party is sooooooooo overrated. You are better off for having missed out on that. I find most teenager embellish their experiences to make it sound more so than it really was. Thank your lucky stars you didn't go to any of the 3:00 a.m. parties, the same thing you do at 3:00 am can be done at 8:00 pm. Don't waste your time on stories you have heard from other teenagers who probably were just sounding off to make themselves appear "cool" Get rid of the wasted jealousy and look forward to the furture...I am sure you will turn out to be a very productive individual if you apply yourself to what lies ahead of you and not what is behind you.
Rave900 reading your post you do not seem like a very confident person..you need to be confident in order to make people notice..If you hold your head up high and enjoy what you do people will begin to take notice of you enjoying your life and will follow...Jenny