My husband could care less if we have a
baby or not. we have been having
unprotected sex for over a year and
nothing, so I had a complete work up done
and nothing wrong there. So I asked him to
go give a semen sample and he said NO. He
said " if we can't have kids then it
wasn't meant to be". I don't know if I can
go my whole life with no kids. I cry
everytime I see a preganat person now
because who know if I will ever get the
opportunity. I never thought at 26 I would
ever have trouble having a baby.
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Tanita
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2008 Posts: 22
Posted: 07-19-08 04:31am
Dear Agwenz,
probably you`ll have to explain your
husband the fact that men infertility
could be treated and could be caused by
various reasons that are not shameful at
all. May be he is afraid of the result of
the semen sample but he`ll have to know
that you won`t blame him but will be
besides him whatever the result shows. Do
not argue but don`t stop insisting. Also
tell him that there`s a great possibility
he doesn`t have any problem too, or has a
small problem that has to be
diagnosticated. I think men are a little
bit more scared than us when it comes to
doctor but we`re the ones that have to
convince them so do not give up. Wishing
you the best of luck!
