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i had sex in 4 weeks ago with a condom. i missed my menstrual period 4 this month and i have done 4 pregnancy tests which were negative.am i pregnant? i'm not sure and im so confused. in case im prenant, i do not want this baby in my life. are there any birth controls i should use to stop it from growing inside me? i simply mean that i want abortion and what must i do? i am still in school,and would love to continue like i used to be,without stress and other social problems.
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replied March 9th, 2009
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If you did four pregnancy tests PROPERLY, all of which were negative, it is highly unlikely that you are pregnant. Are your periods usually regular? If not, then I really don't think you're pregnant. If you don't want the baby, you have two choices; abortion or adoption. Open adoption will allow you to pick the parents, as well as have once-in-a-while contact with the family, pictures, etc. Closed adoption means you hand over the baby, sign the forms, and move on with your life. If you want an abortion, you need to research abortion clinics near your home.

If you are pregnant, good luck with your decision. But before you start thinking about anything else, you need to make a doctor's appointment to find out if you are pregnant. If there's a Planned Parenthood near you, you can go there.

I hope this has helped?
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replied March 13th, 2009
my periods are regular and this week i got them (i guess),though they were thick,clotty for the first two days and very dark. i had some check-ups and no infections were found. now, im confused if that was my real periods or the pregnancy spottings which people talks about on early pregnancies. please tel me the difference on how the two vary in appearance.
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replied March 13th, 2009
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It was your period. You had many negative tests. You are not pregnant, nor was this a miscarriage.
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replied April 9th, 2009
unwanted child
I have been trying to get pregnant for 10 years. It is not in the cards for me. So I wanted to give you another option... Adoption!! And I would me honored to be considered and I know alot of others would be too. God Bless you!!!
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