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Q: Unprotected Sex

asked by: LearningFromMistakes on April 17th, 2009

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I had unprotected sex April 5th 2009 and he pulled out and ejaculated everywhere. I THINK some of it got on the outside of my vagina. I immediately went to the bathroom and splashed myself with water. Then I gently wiped myself clean with warm water and soap. Did some of the sperm get inside?
I also urinated in hopes of "killing sperm" Rolling Eyes

On the 3rd day after that scare, we had unprotected sex AGAIN. I think he ejaculated a bit in me..but I'm worried about pre-cum.
Day 5 we did it AGAIN...this time I bought a contraceptive foam and used it half an hour AFTER sex...I was desperate to get rid of the sperm.
We did not have the money to purchase Plan B.

After a day or so, I went to the bathroom and wiped myself, when I looked at it, it was a huge clump of discharge and was clear/yellowish/white in color. It was lumpy and very thick. What was that? I also had a small case of a yeast infection.

Over the past few days, my stomach has bloated (more on the bottom) and it feels really uncomfortable at the top. I had stomach acid come back up my mouth a few times. I feel nausea all day. My hands get temporarily swollen and when I take naps, I sleep for maybe 3-4 hours. My breasts are not sore but tender, I do not pee frequently nor do I have leg pains. My chest feels compressed as well.
Is it too early for these symptoms?

I have been stressing about this whole dilemma and crying like a baby. Since I stressed so much, my period will probably come late.
We are stupid teens (17,eighteen) for doing what we did and will take responsibility if I am pregnant.

If it's any help, the beginning of my last period was on MARCH 24, 2009 and a month before that, FEBRUARY 21st, 2009.
I'm having a feeling I must have had sex on my ovulation dates. The only problem is I don't know when my ovulation began. My expected period should come around April 23rd or the 24th.
There is no near unplanned pregnancy center here (they're going to build one soon).

And please, no judging or tearing me down from what I did, I know what I did and how bad this situation is.

Replies(12)

Maddie34

replied on April 17th, 2009

Moderator

The yellow clumpy discharge was from your yeast infection and not a symptom of pregnancy.

You can test two weeks after sex OR just wait to see if you've missed a period.

If you get your period, you NEED to schedule an appointment with a doctor and get on birth control-- the doctor can't tell your parents if you're worried about that and some birth controls are very cheap (I got mine for about $10 a month) even without insurance.

I'm not tearing you down, but why don't you just use condoms? Sex is a lot better when both of you aren't worried about pulling out in time, precum, or anything like that. It just doesn't make any sense to me.

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LearningFromMistakes

replied on April 21st, 2009

New User

Scared

Okay, I will try to take a pregnancy test and I will come back with the results.

Right now, my stomach looks oddly bloated. It's mainly in the lower abdomen.
My period is supposed to come in 3 days so I don't know if it is premenstrual bloating or pregnancy bloating.

I haven't been having any food cravings, vomiting, better sense of smell, vision problems..but I have been just feeling weird. I looked on some online ovulation calendars and found out I had unprotected sex on my most fertile days.

I had sex on the 5th and a few more days with it ending on the 10th. So I won't be surprised if I am pregnant. I have been waiting to see some implantation bleeding but none yet.
I'm tired of crying....

MyrahU

replied on April 21st, 2009

Active User, very eHealthy

Pregnancy test may be too early....

If you haven't missed your period yet, the test may not be accurate. Read the directions carefully to see how many days after your missed period when the test is most accurate.

Try to keep calm until you know one way or another. Don't use other indications (such as cravings) to convince yourself one way or another. Not everyone gets those symptoms and some symptoms you get may be unrelated or due to anxiety.

I also agree with Maddie about using birth control. I know your boyfriend may not like wearing condoms because they can be uncomfortable at first, but he will get used to them. You can also go on a birth control pill, which will not protect you from STDs, but will be more effective in preventing pregnancy. There is no harm in even using both, to be extra safe.

Please tell us how everything goes.

LearningFromMistakes

replied on April 21st, 2009

New User

Terrified

Right now, I'm feeling extreme nausea.
I had the urge to throw up in class but I held the feeling. Upon entering home, I tried sticking my finger up my throat but nothing would come out.
So I induced vomiting using a toothbrush.
I feel so full even when I haven't eaten.
I don't want to eat at all.
I'm afraid I may be 4 weeks pregnant even without having to take a pregnancy test.

Fairy Godmother

replied on April 21st, 2009

Supporter

Thats real smart..making yourself blow chunks......please don't do this. The acid from your stomach that runs through your esophogus can eat the lining.....not to mention what it does to the enamel on your teeth. Use your toothbrush for brushing your teeth. I do hope and pray you are NOT pregnant. As you have stated...you are learning from mistakes... even if you were to be pregnant, I have never heard of anyone having symptoms so soon.

Maddie34

replied on April 21st, 2009

Moderator

RELAX

You're probably feeling sick because you're stressing so much. You have got to calm down.

Even when you feel full you need to eat because you know you're not full. Sometimes just eating a little will be enough to spark your appetitte. But don't just not eat and don't purposefully throw up. Take some tums or rolaids to settle your stomach when you feel like throwing up.

If you had sex on the 8th then tomorrow you should be ready to test. Test tomorrow morning or wait, but just remember to test first thing in the morning rather than later on in the day.

LearningFromMistakes

replied on April 21st, 2009

New User

Okay.

LearningFromMistakes

replied on April 26th, 2009

New User

UPDATE!!!

I went on a 4 day Senior Trip and my period FINALLY came on the 24th..
just the day I expected it too.
It was brown at first so I decided to put on a tampon.
I was at the beach and started to cramp and then my period came on.
After heading back to the hotel, I took off my bathing suit
and the whole area was soaked with blood! It was so much. My tampon was still in by the way. And it was the tampon for heavy flow.

I was like, "Did I have a miscarriage or is this my period?"
It was heavy flooding (I naturally bleed a lot during my menstrual cycles).
Today is my 3rd day and it is brown now.
Is this my period, implantation bleeding,
or could I still be pregnant even though my period came on?

saw19842002

replied on April 26th, 2009

New User

sounds like this is your period.....lol be more careful.

sometimes women miscarry without even knowing that they were pregnant.

Maddie34

replied on April 26th, 2009

Moderator

No, this is your period. You can take a pregnancy test if you'd like, but it sounds like you're in the clear.

Schedule an appointment to talk about different forms of birth control or at the very least start using condoms.

LearningFromMistakes

replied on April 26th, 2009

New User

Learned From Mistake

I definitely will NOT be doing that again.
Unprotected sex has taught me a harsh lesson I will never forget.
I won't be having sex for a long time now.
Abstinence is my best friend lol.

I may still take a pregnancy test just to be sure.

Maddie34

replied on April 26th, 2009

Moderator

If you feel that's best for you then go for it, but if you ever change you mind then plan ahead and use some kind of contraceptive.

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