Okay well My baby's father and I had been dating for about 4-5 months
and I would say everything sort of happen really fast! because we were really attracted to eachother! our chemistry was great!... until he started to behave differently! he would often place the blame on me for most of his actions and found it funny to joke about me to his friends... basically do his best to make me look badd... although he had no job or car and was living with his parents at the time!...(go figure) during our demise we often found ourselves in the heat of the night... we had sex one time and he told me that he loved me and i felt to see if he was still wearing the condom... in which he wasn't and by then he ejaculated right?... I asked him if he knew what he was doing?... he replied yes and that he loved me and he wanted a child with together... okay no less than two weeks later... he calls me to find out if i took an abortion pill?!... and i told him no this was all of his doing and he replied he was wasn't; thinking straight and wanted an abortion!... I told him that was not an option and to get a life!
he cursed me out called me all kinds of names even said he didn't know if it was his or not!?...later asking me for his forgiveness 3 days later when he didn't hear 4rm me. This tit-4-tat went on like this for about 3 months where i'am now 4 months and 3 weeks pregnant... and he likes to go in and out of my life claiming that he wants to see me and see how i'm doing! I tried changing my number he finds my home number thru my mom... he popped up unannouced at my house on mutlipul occassions and so on! I really want to think that he is just really scared of the thought of being a father?and he does really love me... or he is just an complete problem and we will never work out for the sake of our child!?... Advice plz!