Why does men have to treat us women very
bad. I just recenly got kicked out of a
relationship. HE kicked me out well I was
visiting my parents when he did. He had
the nerve to have his cousin call me and
tell me it was over, oh and i found out 2
days later that she is with child and they
say its by him. This all happended the 4th
and found out the 6th. Since he has not
called me to tell me the reason. I was to
be married to him yesterday going to the
court house to get married to him. I had
to call my friends i invited and tell them
it was not to be. I have been told that he
broke up with me cause of my aduttued, and
that i was acting to much like his ex
wife.
The thing is he was comparing me to his ex
wife. I finaly told him that I am not his
ex wife and to stop comparing me to her.
Also I think I may be with child by him.
But I dont know I am going to go and get
tested.
Why does men think they can treat us this
way and get away with it.
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flipper
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Posted: 06-17-08 10:32am
I'm sorry that happened to you! Sounds to
me like he suddenly started comparing you
to his ex-wife because he was already
emotionally separated from you and moved
on to someone else.
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whitetiger22
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Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 68
Posted: 06-17-08 10:48am
Thanks Flipper. Well he still hasnt called
me to tell me why he did what he did. Also
if i am pregnunt by him then he hasnt
called to see how i am doing anywayz. He
know that i might be with child, so he
should call me to see how things are. The
way hes ging I am not sure if he really
wants to be part of the kids life when I
find out if I am or not. I am going to get
tested at the end of the month I am
watting to see if I start or not.
Well I am not sure as to what to do, if I
find out that I am should I tell him, or
just get him for child support???? Can
someone help me out and suggest something.
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flipper
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Posted: 06-17-08 10:52am
I think you should do both (if you do wind
up being pregnant), tell him that he's
having a child and also that he needs to
pay child support. He can't just leave
his deposit and go, you know? He still
has to be responcible.
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whitetiger22
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 68
Posted: 06-17-08 10:56am
Thats the thing. I dont think that he
wants anything to do with me nor his child
if I am. His mom already said that she
will try and get the baby tooken away from
me so I am a little scared to tell him.
But i know that i have to tell him. The
thing is I cry when ever I think of him.
So I know something is wrong with me.
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whitetiger22
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 68
update...... Posted: 09-10-08 20:13pm
Well I did find out if i am carring his
child or not. Luckly I am not. So there is
no need to worry about this one anymore. I
have also moved on and found someone else
to be with.
