KneePain313,
You have had a pretty thorough workup. One good thing is that the MRI and orthopedic evaluation shows that you do not have any obvious structural abnormalities. In other words, your cartilages and ligaments are intact, you don't have any masses inside the knee, and your articular surfaces are okay.
However, you do have something going on, because swelling is not normal. To have enough fluid for the rheumatologist to aspirate is more than normal. Everyone has to have a little joint fluid, to keep the joint lubricated, but it should not be enough to pull any out with a syringe.
It is not uncommon for the knee to be uncomfortable in the posterior (back) aspect when there is an effusion (swelling inside the knee joint itself).
Unfortunately, there are a multitude of inflammatory arthropathies. Some of them have tests, from which they can be detected. But, the vast majority do not.
Some have known causes, such as infectious diseases (Lyme disease, Chlamydia, gonorrhea, salmonella, viruses, fungus), but in the vast majority, the cause is still not known.
If you have an active inflammatory process going on, your inflammatory markers should be elevated. These are the ESR (erythrocyte sedimentation rate) and the CRP (C reactive protein).
Sorry about your knee problems. It is going to be very difficult to figure out what is actually going on. But, if you continue to seek an answer, one will usually finally be found. It may be that you have just presented before the classic symptoms have shown up. With time, your symptoms may change and finally fit a particular disease process. Keep looking.
Hang in there. Good luck.